What does tantra massage do to you as a giver?

Sometimes clients ask me what the massage does to me as a giver. Does it do nothing to me? Do I fully go along with the flow and energy? Something in between?

I don't think it's such an easy question. My job is primarily to make you feel safe. When you have more confidence step by step, you can also sink deeper and deeper into yourself and surrender yourself. I help you release and circulate your (life) energy in your body. I am a kind of anchor or support for you when your body's own happy particles let you go on a journey within yourself or bring possible emotions to the surface.

I read your body as best as possible and partly go along with the energetic flow, but on the other hand I also remain your point of contact with reality. For example, if you are experiencing an episode of sadness, you will not benefit from me experiencing it. On the contrary, then you just need a solid rock with whom, as said before, you will find support and who will not pass judgment on you.

When this is all very new to you, you are a rock-hard control freak, you don't feel comfortable, you experience too much stress, you just don't have your day,... it can be difficult to get out of your head and connect with your body itself. As a result, you will experience the massage more as a soft, loving relaxation massage, which is also completely ok! I always say that you need to see tantra massage as a process. I notice with repeat customers that they can always go a little deeper into their experience.