Frequently asked questions

General information about tantra massage

What exactly is tantra massage?
Tantra massage is a holistic form of massage that connects body, mind and energy and is focused on relaxation, awareness and experiencing life energy. More information can be found on the tantra massage page.

What is the difference between tantra massage and a regular relaxation massage?
Tantra massage focuses on consciously experiencing the entire body and working with energy, while a regular massage is mainly focused on muscle relaxation.

Who is tantra massage suitable for?
Tantra massage is suitable for anyone who is open to self-discovery, relaxation and deepening body awareness.

What are the possible effects or benefits of tantra massage?
Possible effects are deep relaxation, more body awareness, emotional release and the release of blockages. More information can be found on the tantra massage page.

Is tantra massage the same as sexual massage?
No, tantra massage is about awareness and energy, not about sexual satisfaction, although the entire body is included. More information can be found in the blog article "Differences between a tantric and erotic massage".

How does a typical tantra massage session proceed?
A session starts with an exploratory conversation, followed by a respectful massage in which you can completely relax. Afterwards, you can briefly discuss your experience.

Which techniques are used during a tantra massage?
Soft strokes, pressure points and breathing techniques are used to let energy flow.

Is tantra massage safe?
Yes, provided it is performed by a professional therapist who respects your boundaries and wishes.

Do I have to undress completely for a tantra massage?
You decide to what extent you undress; everything is done in consultation and with respect for your boundaries.

How do I best prepare for a tantra massage?
Come well-rested, eat lightly before the session and discuss any wishes or boundaries with the therapist in advance. This can be done in the appointment form and in the exploratory conversation beforehand.

How much does a tantra massage session cost?
Prices vary per therapist. You can find the rates on the profile of each therapist.

Are there any contraindications or situations in which tantra massage is not recommended?
In case of serious psychological complaints, infectious diseases or pregnancy, it is wise to consult the therapist first.

About yoni and lingam massage

What is a yoni massage?
A yoni massage is a loving, respectful massage of the female pelvic area focused on relaxation and awareness. More information can be found on the yoni massage page.

What is a lingam massage?
A lingam massage is a respectful massage of the male pelvic area with attention to relaxation, energy and awareness. More information can be found on the lingam massage page.

Why would someone choose a yoni or lingam massage?
These massages can help release tension, increase body awareness and heal blockages.

Is a yoni or lingam massage only focused on sexual experience?
No, the goal is relaxation, healing and awareness, not sexual arousal or satisfaction.

Can a yoni or lingam massage help with processing traumas or blockages?
Yes, many people experience emotional or energetic healing through these massages, if performed by an experienced therapist.

Are yoni and lingam massages only given by women/men?
No, both female and male therapists can give these massages, depending on your preference.

Is there a difference between yoni/lingam massage and tantra massage in general?
Yoni and lingam massage are specific forms within tantra massage, with extra attention for the pelvic area.

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How do I find a reliable tantra therapist?
Choose a certified therapist with experience and good reviews, and listen to your feelings during the first contact.

How can I make an appointment via the website?
You can fill in the appointment form via the 'Appointment' tab on the therapist's profile, or fill in the general form on the appointment page.

What can I expect from the first session?
You will receive an explanation of the course, discuss your wishes and boundaries, and experience a respectful massage at your own pace.

What happens if I feel uncomfortable during the massage?
You can always indicate your boundaries or pause the session; your comfort and safety are paramount.

Is there always physical contact during a tantra massage?
Yes, but always in consultation and with respect for your wishes and boundaries.

Is there room for a follow-up discussion or processing after the massage?
Yes, therapists usually offer room for a short follow-up discussion or processing afterwards.

Do I need to bring anything special to the session?
Usually you don't need to bring anything; wear comfortable clothing and discuss any wishes in advance.

How long does a tantra massage session last?
A session lasts on average between 120 and 180 minutes, depending on the chosen therapist, your preference and how the session progresses at the moment itself.

Can I book a tantra massage as a couple?
Yes, many therapists also offer sessions for couples. To do this, filter on the therapy type ‘duo massage’ on the therapists page.

Is tantra massage reimbursed by the health insurance company or health insurance company?
In most cases, tantra massage is not reimbursed by the health insurance company or health insurance company.

About the therapist and approach

What training have the therapists completed?
You can find more about the therapists and their completed training and additional training on their personal profile via the therapists page.

How does the therapist guarantee my privacy and boundaries?
Therapists work discreetly, respect your boundaries and discuss your wishes and any concerns in advance.

Can I choose which therapist will guide me?
Yes, you can choose a therapist yourself based on location, specialization or personal preference. This can be done via the therapists page.

Is it possible to choose a female or male therapist?
Yes, you can indicate whether you want a female or male therapist. To do this, filter on ‘Therapist for’ on the therapists page.

Where can I find a tantra therapist in my region?
You can easily search for therapists in your region via our website. To do this, filter on ‘Province’ on the therapists page.

What other forms of therapy do the therapists offer?
Many therapists also offer other body-oriented therapies, coaching or energetic work.