Matthias

About me

I am a divorced father of two beautiful teenage daughters. After a regular professional life, I began working increasingly in the field of personal development and subsequently started a coaching practice. After my divorce, tantra crossed my path, and I dared to allow much more intimacy and sexuality into my life. So much so that I dared to go public with it professionally. A liberating process that meant a great deal to me and was, at the same time, very liberating.

With my practice, I offer you a place where slowing down and safety open the way to a loving relationship with your body. I am deeply convinced that intimacy gives you inner strength. Intimacy is not just about sexuality, but about being present, feeling consciously, and the freedom to be completely yourself. I personally approach the sessions with attuned touch, masculine presence, and safe intimacy. I focus on people (m/f/x) who long to recognize signals from their bodies, to trust them and act accordingly, to feel their own boundaries and be able to express them, and to enjoy conscious touch of themselves and others. In short, for anyone who wants to relax in intimacy. I offer a framework and support to be able to slow down, deepen, and surrender.

I have been offering tantra massage and holistic massage for several years, and lately I have been focusing more on intimacy in general, namely how people can reclaim intimacy of their bodies and intimacy with others.

For me, tantra is primarily about being consciously present with yourself, in your body, in the moment, and with the other person. It reconnects the body, the mind, and the heart, allowing us to experience wholeness.

As energetic and bodywork, tantra is a form of healing through which all kinds of emotions can arise—pleasure, joy, and delight, but also suppressed feelings of shame, pain, sadness, and fear. By allowing these experiences in a safe way, something can transform within your system.

Tantra is often mistakenly narrowed down to sex, but it is much more than that. Tantra works with life energy, which is essentially sexual energy. This energy is often blocked within the body, causing all kinds of physical and mental discomforts to surface. In a tantra session, we allow this energy to flow again without working purposefully towards sexual pleasure, sexual acts, or an orgasm. Sexual energy or arousal may occur, and this is welcome. However, this is not an end in itself. Therefore, this will not be pursued in a targeted manner.

Some sessions may involve partial or full nudity. Nudity is not an end in itself but is used purely functionally. You decide how far you can go with this, and here too, you can decide at any moment to dress or cover yourself fully or partially.

The erogenous zones are part of our body. These zones are often ignored because they are associated with shame or trauma. During a session, they can be involved, but there is no targeted focus on them as in a sexual exchange.

A tantra session is a one-way street from giver (facilitator) to receiver (client). Tantra sessions are not sexual services.

This profound practice can only work when those involved feel safe enough to surrender. As a client, you remain the owner of your body. Before each session, we discuss what type of touch and which body parts feel comfortable. You can also withdraw your consent at any time if you feel more comfortable doing so.

My guidance can consist of sessions focusing on bodywork, tantra, breathwork, meditation, relaxation, massage, energetic or intimate bodywork, and personal development and awareness.

I primarily offer three services: a “Sacred intimacy and sexual healing” program, in which I tailor my approach to the client's specific intimacy needs. The price is determined based on the client's needs and requirements.

Additionally, there is “tantra massage,” in which I guide them through a sensual, deep full-body massage so they can make a deep connection with themselves, their bodies, and their life energy.

Finally, I also offer “Healing with Ropes” sessions, an invitation to let go of control, to temporarily stop carrying, managing, or performing, and instead let go of the mind and connect more deeply with their bodies. Working with ropes is like a conversation between three, a dance between you, the ropes, and me.

Education – training – courses

• Mindfulness Course – Institute for Attention & Mindfulness
• Coaching Training – Centrum Open Mind & Yourcoach
• Introduction to Trauma Therapy – Centrum Open Mind
• LIFO® License Training – LIFO (behavioral model)
• Tantra Initiation Weekend for Singles – Full of Wonder
• Tantra Year-long Program – Temple of Tantric Arts, Alexa Mira
• Holistic Massage – OostWest Centrum
• Tantra Massage – Tantra Atma, Johan Raaimakers
• Love Retreat for Couples – Rising Hearts
• Pathway 1, 2 & 3 – Consensual, Jonathan Beger
• Tantra Massage Training – Shaft Uddin
• Multiple workshops on the Inner Child (ToTA), on Contact, Improvisation, Dance & Authentic Relating (Bali)

Rates

Sacred intimacy and sexual healing

Intake consultation €105 for 1.5 hours. One-third of that amount will be deducted from the invoice for the program if you sign up for a program of at least 4 sessions.

The price of the program itself is determined based on the specific needs and the support required.

Tantramassage

Price: €150 for a 2-hour session.

Healing with ropes

Price: €150 for a 2-hour session.