Narcissism

Recently a woman came by for a tantra massage session and she had only dealt with narcissists in her relationships. All this time it was always about her partner, without any attention for herself. There had never really been any intimacy and even sexually, everything happened with him as the center. As a woman, she could never have experienced the loving attention and gentleness that would nourish, awaken and allow her inner goddess to blossom.

When I heard her story, I already had a strong suspicion that the session could have a very big impact on her. She knew nothing other than giving, giving and giving again, perhaps often crossing her own boundaries. Tantra massage is a moment of pure reception, complete me-time where you can let your body speak in complete relaxation. I thought it was great that she was aware of this during our exploratory conversation. She had the intention to first work on herself, to heal herself before she would enter into a relationship with a man again and would very likely end up in the same patterns again.

During the session it was very nice to see how her body could become more relaxed step by step. This was also regularly noticeable in the moments of deep exhalation, where I could really feel and see the relief. After the closing she became a bit emotional and literally said thank you more than 10 times. The session was truly a revelation for her, a discovery of how things could be done differently. She also said repeatedly that she was completely overwhelmed and at a loss for words. We immediately set a date for a new session. Grateful that I can assist her on her path to learning to fully stand in her power as a woman!