Choosing for tantra massage

After beautiful, intense energetic sessions I have often thought 'Wow, I really have to write something about this!'. But I usually don't do it for various reasons. First and foremost, words often fail to describe an emotional experience. On the other hand, I already have a lot of information on the website, and I quickly think that I will repeat myself.

Anyway, I'm writing now and I think some repetition could certainly be useful for some. Because after all these years I know that it can often be a barrier for women to choose tantra massage. Some have been toying with the idea for years and sometimes still decide not to do it and just stay in their comfort zone. Those who ultimately take the step almost never regret it. What's more, for some it is even a completely new chapter in their lives, a start or deepening of personal development and growth.

I am always curious how people come to me, what their motivation or reason is for choosing tantra massage. The great thing about this is that these reasons can be very different.

• Some of them come to address some form of (often sexual) trauma. They have little or no connection with their yoni anymore and tantra massage is effectively an excellent choice to revive and restore the heart-yoni connection. In this way, an energy flow can arise from the lower to the higher chakras, making you more active and with joy of life.
• Others come from a lack of touch, which is nicely called skin hunger. They are often single, or they are in a relationship that is not going well. This could be a total lack of intimacy (e.g. not even a hug now and then) or an experience of sexuality that is not satisfying. These sessions are often emotional (often sadness) because it is only through the loving, gentle massage that they realize what they are actually missing. At the same time, it often helps them to learn to stand in their strength as a woman and to know what they want and no longer want.
• Some who come by are already involved in spirituality or forms of energetic (body) work (e.g. yoga, meditation, ...) and are looking for further deepening and evolution on their path. They already have more experience with letting go, getting out of their heads and surrendering. These sessions can be very intense and are just about the pinnacle of intuitive massage, where I, as a giver, am often swept away too into a wonderful flow.
• Then there are also women who book a session mainly out of curiosity. They have heard something about tantra massage and are curious about what it can do for them. Their lives are going well, no major traumas that actively bother them, a loving partner with whom intimacy is largely good, not really actively involved in spirituality, but for example they have tried yoga or meditation.

Whatever your background or experience, a tantra massage session is always different and unpredictable. As a general rule and observation: The more you manage to get out of your head and connect with your body, the more energetic and profound the session is. Of course, this can only happen when you feel completely safe and can give confidence.

It is also not abnormal that tantra massage no longer lets you go once you have experienced an in-depth session in which you have been in surrender. I already have several clients who have now become tantra massage therapists themselves and can in turn add value to many people's lives. A profession that can also give us as a giver a lot of satisfaction!