Christian

Course

Tantra massage

A tantra massage is an intuitive, flowing and loving touch of the whole body. An intimate dance, in which you can surrender to a deep connection with yourself, with the love that you essentially are.

Your body is massaged with warm massage oil, where tender caresses and more firm touches follow one another. The vital life energy that is generated in this way will flow through your entire body. Everything may be there, for example feelings of ecstasy, emotion or excitement, but sadness can also be released. You can use all the intense experiences to get in touch more deeply with what you really are.

A tantra massage helps you to feel more alive, sensual and present in your entire body. You experience more zest for life and creativity and contact with others becomes easier. Any pain, tension and shame in intimacy and sexuality can be resolved, because you lovingly come into contact with these feelings during the massage. You gain a wider sense of what you are beyond all the varying experiences.

Who is this tantra massage intended for?

I give tantra massage to women and (occasional) couples who recognize themselves in (one of) the following reasons for tantra massage:

• You want to be more present in your own body to feel your vital life energy flowing again
• You want to (learn to) enjoy your body more and let go of pain, tension and shame about it
• You have a desire to be touched: physically, emotionally and spiritually
• You want to learn new ways to enjoy and strengthen or restore the connection with your (future) partner
• You want to learn to give a tantra massage yourself

How does a tantra massage work?

At the start of the session, we first take the time to get to know each other and discuss what you wish to experience in the massage. You can indicate what your possible obstacles are and which boundaries are important to you. We look for an affirmation or short phrase for you that you experience as particularly healing, and are invited to occasionally express this self-affirmation inwardly because in this state of surrender you are very receptive to new thought patterns.

Then we take a seat on a mattress on the floor. Step by step we make closer contact to further familiarize ourselves with each other's proximity. When you are ready, I start the massage with heated, organic oil.

During the session you can enjoy all the touches and the relaxing music. In coordination with you I use the Kashmir tantra massage posture.

After the massage there is time to lie down and talk. I advise you not to plan any strenuous activities afterwards, but to take the time for yourself so that the massage can continue to work well.

How are my personal wishes and limits handled?

A tantra massage is a wonderful experience when it is tailored to your wishes and limits. On the one hand, it can be interesting to explore your limits in order to broaden them. On the other hand, it makes sense to stay true to boundaries that are really important to you right now.

During the massage you can adjust your wishes or limits. However, it is not possible to expand the indicated limits so that you do not make impulsive decisions that you might regret later. Limiting it further can of course be a healing experience.

In its original form, a tantra massage is experienced naked, in which all parts of the body are touched respectfully. More important, however, is what you feel most comfortable with. We therefore discuss in advance where you want to stay dressed and in which parts of your body you do not want to be touched. During the massage I respect your limits and mine. I myself wear shorts during the massage.

Besides the tantra massage I also offer Lomi-lomi and holistic massage (1 hour).

Mini workshop for couples

A tantra massage is a wonderful way to experience the physical, emotional and spiritual connection with your partner and with yourself. You can let each other relax deeply and fully enjoy loving touch and intimacy.

Even when the connection with your partner is disrupted, making contact beyond words can be a relief. From the softness of physical closeness and intimacy, space can again be created to continue contact in a new way. When the sexual relationship has been disrupted, exchanging a tantra massage can be a great alternative and contribute to restoring the sexual connection.

In a partner session of three and a half hours you can already learn to give each other a nice tantra massage. I myself will not massage but coach from the sidelines. It has been found to have a very healing and refreshing effect on the relationship. Also very suitable as a surprise birthday present!