Country: The Netherlands
    Province: Overijssel (NL)
    Location: NL - Enschede
    Therapist for: Men, Women
    Therapy form: Body De-Armouring, Duo massage, Tantra massage (yoni), Tantra massage workshop

    About me

    Tantra massage Arnoud

    For me, the loving acceptance of all that is, is an important starting point of Tantra. You don't have to change, you're all right just the way you are. Purely observing without judging brings you so much already. Tantra massage can support you in this.
    After all the thinking and talking in endless therapy sessions, thanks to massage therapy and Tantra, I discovered that my body and 'feeling' would show me the way to recovery and liberation. I was even so enthusiastic about the positive effect on myself that I also wanted to guide other people in this. I radically changed course, retrained from personnel consultant to massage therapist. In 2005 I followed a year-long Tantra course at the Osho Love Mystery School (later Wild Tantra). After that I had long-term individual tantra massage sessions with a teacher who also taught me how to give Tantra massages.
    My training as a professional tantra masseur in 2014 and thus the start of my Tantra practice were a logical consequence. In the period 2015-2018 I was a teacher at the Helios Tantra massage Training and I also gave other Tantra and massage courses there. For years now I have enjoyed sharing my knowledge and experience during my own Tantra and Tantra massage workshops and training. I do this together with my beloved Debby.

    Tantra massage is a wonderful way to reconnect with yourself (and from here with the other). It focuses on energetic body work and allows your energy to flow freely again. It expands your consciousness, so that there is room for more balance, pleasure and happiness in your life.
    Where are your needs? What are your desires? What do you want to experience? Whether it's blockages you want to get rid of or you just need touch: feel free and share it with me. I am open and unbiased towards what lives in you.
    With love I offer you my respectful guidance on your path of growth and happiness.

    Recent relevant education and training:

    • Sexual Healing and De-Armouring Training, Susanne Roursgaard (2022 5-days)
    • Myofascial Energetic Release practitioner (6 modules, completed in 2022)
    • Full Body De-Armouring Training, Susanne Roursgaard (2018)
    • Sexual Healing De-Armouring Training, Susanne Roursgaard (2017 4-day)
    • Training Early relational experiences, trauma and touch (Michael Mokrus)
    • Kundalini Healing De-Armouring Training (Flaviu Pop, 2017)
    • Shamanic Body De-Armouring Training (Freqency Facilitators, 2017)
    • Wild Tantra (Kundalini Awakening and Arya Ritual, 2016)
    • Helios, Tantra massage training (2014)


    We discuss your wishes and I explain what you can expect from me. Feel free to ask anything you want, nothing human is strange to me. I think it is very important to know in advance where your limits lie. You indicate where I can and can't touch you. Of course you can limit that during the massage, then you just indicate this. You can rest assured that I also check regularly during the massage whether you feel safe and familiar.

    Tantra massage is given on a mat on the floor. We start with a meditation exercise for relaxation. We both wear shawls. You decide whether you are naked underneath. If you like me to wear briefs, I will. After the meditation you take off your cloth and you can lie on your stomach, after which I start massaging with warm organic coconut oil. With alternating long, soft and sometimes firmer strokes, where I use my hands/arms/body, your entire body is massaged with loving attention.

    Offer (No appointments on Wednesdays and weekends)

    • Tantra massage - Relax (for women and men)
    • Tantra massage – Bliss (for women, with yoni massage)
    • Tantra Massage – Play (interactive session for women)
    • Sensual Relaxation Massage (for women and men)
    • Body-De Armoring (for women and men)
    • Duo-Tantra massage for couples i.c.w. my partner Debby
    • Mini workshop Tantra massage for couples i.c.w. my partner Debby

    Arnoud tantra massage praktijk


    • Tantra massage – Relax, 2 hours €150 (m/f)
    • Tantra massage – Bliss, 2.5 hours €180 (f)
    • Tantra massage – Play, 3 hours €225 (f)
    • Sensual Relaxation Massage, 2 hours €120 (m/f)
    • Body-De Armoring, 2 hours €160 (m/f)
    • Duo-Tantra massage for couples €75 per hour
    • Mini workshop Tantra massage for couples €75 per hour

    No appointments on Wednesdays and weekends.

    I found it very exciting to do. Tantra massage turned out to be a therapeutic healing process. Arnoud is, besides being a great masseur, also a good listener and coach. Really nothing was out of the question. He does not judge and completely tunes in to what is needed. During the massages, old pain sometimes came up. He was very kind and understanding to me. It has helped me dismantle old patterns and beliefs. This journey has been worth gold to me. I now feel like a free woman, whose sexual energy is allowed to flow unhindered. I dance without any uncertainty. I stand for my own spirituality and I think very differently about relationships. Dear Arnoud, I am eternally grateful to you.

    Joyce, 52y (session 1) [therapist: Arnoud]

    A lot came loose during the De-armouring sessions. Anger, sadness and frustration from the past that I thought didn't matter anymore. Pretty exciting. Because I felt safe and trusted with you, I was slowly able to let go. You kept a close eye on me, checked if I still felt okay. That was very nice. I now feel that I am stronger in my shoes, I appreciate myself more and I have learned to feel again how nice things can be. I feel like a woman again and want to be treated with respect.

    Inge, 42y (session 1) [therapist: Arnoud]

    What characterizes Arnoud is his soft look, clarity, integrity and a generous welcome of you as a human being. Tantra is for me a courageous path of personal and spiritual development, which makes you feel strong within you, makes your body live and makes you grow in your openness, your strength and freedom. At the start of the session, Arnoud takes the time to discuss wishes, restrictions, limits and agreements during the massage. That means that you can relax in his massage and in his soft yet firm expert hands. Whatever comes out in terms of emotions is well received or briefly discussed. In the meantime, his coordination remains meticulous. Thank you Arnoud for your quality and integrity.

    Jeanet, 47y (session 1) [therapist: Arnoud]

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    I will inform you as soon as possible of the additional costs for kilometers and extra time
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    DO NOT suggest dates on weekends please
    Double rate applies for duo massage.
    Double rate applies for duo massage.
    These sessions include conversation, preparation and ritual, massage of 1.5-2h-3h, refreshing and aftertalk.
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