Tantra duo massage testimonial

A unique duo experience

Rather by chance we both came across tantra as a good next step on our way to get closer to each other as a couple. In the meantime we are both forty and have been together for 25 years. On the one hand the focus on work and therefore too little time for the family, on the other hand also allowing time for ourselves which was not always possible anymore and not being able to enjoy ourselves anymore due to vaginismus problems, which even made it impossible to have an orgasm, made us decide about a year ago to work more on ourselves and our relationship. The coaching courses we followed for this ensured that we were more open to ourselves and made time for each other again.

Tantra, as we read and heard, would have a positive effect on 'coming closer to each other' and could also help with vaginismus problems. So why not. It seemed a logical next step. That is how we ended up with Saskia and Christophe. The information on the site already gave us a good feeling.

Initially, our idea was to let my wife experience the session. When we contacted her, we also saw the possibility of the duo tantra massage. We decided that this would be a great way to further strengthen the path we had taken as a couple over the past year.

Because such a duo massage is an intense individual experience, we made good agreements in advance as a couple about how we would give each other freedom in this. This is something we strongly recommend to every couple who does a duo massage. This way, you can completely surrender to what comes during the session without having to think 'what is my partner thinking now'. It is a duo massage, but at that moment, allow each other the individual pleasure. Make those agreements in advance and confirm them to each other again when you arrive at the location. This way you can let go and enjoy.

You never know in advance what the impact of such a session will be. You cannot control which experience will come up. That was also the case with us. We still look back on the experience very positively. It was an intense experience for both of us that literally continues to reverberate.

Upon arrival we were still wondering how this would all go, but very quickly we got the feeling of 'this is good'. Christophe and Saskia took the time to get to know us and explain how the session would go. The important tip about 'how to breathe during the session' ensured that we could also get into the session very intensely and stay there.

We also received an explanation of the steps in the session. First we were allowed to lie on our stomachs to relax and experience this part of the massage more deeply, to then experience the tantra massage more and more intensely. I will not write details in this review because we experienced this unknown so positively during this first session. This is part of the positive experience. Surrendering to the hands that guide you. (Perhaps something else that I find not unimportant to mention: It is sometimes written here and there that tantra massages have something erotic. I guarantee you two hundred percent that this is not the case. Once you are in the session, you have two hands that let you slide and discover your entire body.) This may seem strange, but during the session we both kept our eyes closed for the entire duration. This is a really personal moment, even though our partner was lying two meters next to us. Christophe and Saskia do a fantastic job here, and it almost feels like detracting from their person, but at the moment of the session you feel those 2 hands, not the person. That makes it so unique. Those 2 hands that let you experience the journey.

We could hardly believe it, but in the meantime we can also say that the orgasm/vaginismus problems after all these years have clearly improved a lot, even after this one session. Experiencing an orgasm for the first time again was wonderful. It is possible! Even now, about a month after the session, this feeling remains and has even been strengthened. We really did not think that one session would have this result. We are aware that it may not be permanent yet, but knowing that it is ‘still there’ is already fantastic and this also brings us back together as a couple.

My wife, who had a lot of pain all over her body in the period before the session, had noticeably less pain for several weeks afterwards. Everything literally felt ‘looser’.

The experience was also unique for me. When I first heard about tantra, I also understood that it could help embrace ‘unprocessed grief’. This did indeed surface during the session. I had hoped for this somewhere, but absolutely did not expect it to happen. This was very intense, very pure and strangely enough also very beautiful. Now, a month later, that positive thought keeps coming up. A smile now really appears on my face when I consciously let the song play that was playing in the background at that exact moment during the session. This gives me, instead of sadness, even a blissful and supportive feeling.

One deep, intense session, much more than we could have imagined. Partly because we also granted each other that freedom beforehand. Christophe and Saskia, this was a fantastic experience for both of us. We are both very grateful to you for your energy and dedication.

We could have tried to describe this review in three sentences, but that would detract too much from the intense experience. Thank you!

We would like to continue the journey we have started and have booked a second session in the meantime.