Intimacy Coaching - Learn to speak your loved one's language

In our practice we encounter more and more clients who have lost each other in bed. Some for only a short time and others for decades.

They have not experienced intimacy in bed for years, they often even sleep in separate beds or bedrooms because they simply cannot tolerate the other person's body near them.

I find that distressing and I am there for them. I have had years of experience as a relationship therapist and have seen relationships fail in this area. My experience is that many relationships could be saved with the right tools.

That's why I always start by providing insight into my own patterns. Everyone speaks their own language when it comes to love, when it comes to saying sorry and accepting apologies, and also their own language in bed. Yes, you heard that right: you also speak a certain language in bed. And if that is a different language than your loved one, you can lose each other in bed. Think of it as body language that some people understand and others do not, making it seem as if one speaks Chinese and the other speaks Turkish, which is how I always explain it in a simple way to my customers.

Esther Perel, a well-known sex therapist, always says: 'most couples seek help from a therapist 6 years too late'. And why? Because most couples are ashamed of it and think that they will work it out together when the children are older or have left home. But the opposite is true: the average age that couples get divorced is getting higher and that is a shame.

If you no longer speak each other's language, you can talk whatever you want in relationship therapy. But then it becomes a challenge to find a solution together if you each continue to speak your own language.
So are you ready to look at your intimacy and connection in a different way? Then make an appointment via Kaat and click on intimacy coaching.

Seek help in time and don't wait until it's too late, I'm here for you!